Sunday, June 16, 2013

Father's Day

Happy Father's Day to all of the amazing dads who make sacrifices for their children, loving them unconditionally each and every day!

This year, Ryan did finger painting and made handprint trees to give to his daddy and both grandpas.

A Poem for Daddy

My footprint is small but getting bigger everyday
I am learning by watching you work, love, and play
Remember when your days are long and you can't walk another mile
That this little footprint makes it all worthwhile

My hands are getting bigger too
I use them to play and love to chew
One day my hands will do much more
I hope you will teach me what they are better for
~author unknown

Summer 2011
Spring 2012
Spring 2013 
I love how Ryan is so much like his daddy! He looks exactly like Barry's mini-me (with the exception of having mommy's blue eyes and fine hair) and he also inherited daddy's love of cars, boats, planes (basically any transportation), sports, and sleep. You know that he doesn't get that stuff from mommy!

They are seriously the most awesome guys that I know. I always think about how grateful I am to have these two. Barry is such an involved parent. He spends at least a couple hours a day with Ryan, even on days that he goes to work. I think that it is so healthy for Ryan to feel that both of his parents play an active role in his daily life. I love that the 3 of us spend lots of time together because it makes us a more close-knit family. We are very blessed.

When we were picking out Father's Day cards, Ryan originally picked out one with a dinosaur, but then decided to go with a Mr. Potato Head card, because he didn't want daddy to "be very scared of the dinosaur's teeth".  LOL

I hope that everyone enjoys celebrating their dads today... it takes a truly special man to be there through thick and thin for his family.


Thursday, June 6, 2013

Circadian Rhythms, Light Therapy, and Vitamin D

This past winter, a blood test determined that I had an extreme vitamin D deficiency. I also had a delayed sleep phase disorder. My doctors prescribed light therapy and vitamin D supplements, which I have been taking since February. I found that they help me tremendously. I no longer have fatigue, shortness of breath, muscle weakness, daytime sleepiness, or insomnia!

Circadian Rhythms

We all have a biological clock that controls our circadian rhythms, which affects things like our body temperature, appetite, alertness, and sleep timing. For some of us, the genetic makeup of our circadian timing system causes our bodies to deviate from the typical pattern. For as long as I can remember, I have had abnormal circadian rhythms that led to me feeling the most energetic right around the time that everybody else is going to sleep. I have also always been ridiculously tired in the mornings (basically, any time before noon). I usually managed to get by on very little sleep during the weekdays and then I would sleep until the afternoon on the weekends to make up for it. 


But over the past two years, my sleep patterns had got even worse. It was at the point where, on a daily basis, I would not sleep the whole night and still be wide awake at 7:00am when I needed to wake up at 8:30 or 9am. Then I would crash in the late morning and not be able to function throughout the rest of the day on a normal schedule. I desperately needed to find something to help, because I couldn’t do the things that I wanted to do at the times that they needed to be done. I followed people’s advice, such as not consuming any caffeine or sugar, but I still found myself awake all hours of the night.

I ended up going sleep specialist, who told me that I had a delayed sleep phase disorder, causing me to operate about 9 hours behind everyone else, both in falling asleep and waking up. She recommended for me to try light therapy (typically used to treat S.A.D.) which involves sitting in front of a bright light that mimics natural outdoor light, minus the harmful UV rays. I honestly thought that it sounded like a gimmick at first, especially since I didn’t see how light therapy could possibly work for both S.A.D. and sleep disorders, but I was willing to give it a try. 

Light Therapy

I was shocked to find that, after getting a light and using it for only two weeks, my circadian rhythms automatically adjusted. I was finally sleepy at night and energetic during the day! Since I need to be exposed to the light for 30 minutes every morning, I chose to go with the visor, rather than the light box, so that I can move around and do daily activities (getting dressed, breakfast, or driving to wherever I am going) at the same time. 


I have found that if I skip two or more mornings of using the light, I tend to slip back into the late sleep/wake patterns, so I really try to use it every day. I now generally sleep from about 1:30am to 8:30am, which isn’t perfect (the sleep specialist said that I will always be a night owl because that is how my body is naturally) but it is much more reasonable than before.

I look really silly wearing it, but Ryan loves the hat. He says that when he is bigger,
he wants to wear a light hat like mommy. Ha! I hope that he never needs to!


Vitamin D

I originally hoped that the light therapy used for circadian rhythms would also help to bring up my vitamin D levels, but since there are no UV rays involved, it does not provide any vitamin D. While I do go outside daily (especially now that the weather is gorgeous!) and eat foods that contain Vitamin D, it just isn’t enough for me, personally. I think that it would be for some people, but all of our bodies are unique and process things differently. So, at the recommendation of my doctor, I now take an additional vitamin D supplement every day.


Since I hate taking lots of pills (bad memories from chemo) I opted for Carlson’s vitamin D drops along with Carlson’s liquid fish oil for the added health benefits. I also started taking Magnesium, since it works together with Vitamin D. I have never really taken vitamins before in my adult life (except prenatal) but since I have started taking these, my body feels younger, less achy, and more energetic.



Why Vitamin D is essential… 

Vitamin D can help our bodies in various ways: increasing muscle energy, reducing muscle fatigue, promoting calcium absorption, reducing inflammation, encouraging bone growth, regulating cell growth and cell activity, helping the immune system, protecting against osteoporosis, diabetes, heart disease, rickets, and hypertension, reducing stress, reducing depression, strengthening hair and teeth, improving brain function, and aiding in weight loss. Furthermore, vitamin D may even play a role in the prevention of certain types of cancers.

According to this article“Strong evidence indicates that intake or synthesis of vitamin D is associated with reduced incidence and death rates of colon, breast, prostate, and ovarian cancers. More than 1000 laboratory and epidemiological studies have been published concerning the association between vitamin D and its metabolites and cancer. Long-term studies have demonstrated the efficacy of moderate intake of vitamin D in reducing cancer risk and, when administered with calcium, in reducing the incidence of fractures.”

This article states that, "Though the relationship between vitamin D and breast cancer remains unclear, a growing body of research currently supports vitamin D deficiency as a risk factor for breast cancer" and "vitamin D deficiency has been shown to promote the growth of human breast cancer cells in the bones of nude mice, suggesting that vitamin D might promote cancer growth by altering the bone microenvironment.”

I also found it interesting how this article says that a "variation in VDR (vitamin D receptor gene) may be associated with breast cancer risk." Maybe that explains why some of us are prone to having low levels of vitamin D?

Regardless of how little or how much protection vitamin D can offer me from a cancer recurrence, I still think that it is important for my overall health to make sure that I am getting plenty of it. Foods that contain vitamin D include: eggs, cod liver oil, mackerel, mushrooms, catfish, herring, tuna, salmon, sardines, fatty fish, and fortified dairy products. However, a healthy diet alone often isn't enough to fulfill the daily requirements of vitamin D. 

So we should make sure to spend lots of time outside this summer and try to get an extra dose of vitamin D!


 

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Life Update (Past Two Months)

Anybody who knows me, knows that I am always busy. I have a million to-do lists, projects, and ideas floating around my head at any given moment. I can not even remember the last time that I was bored. It perpetually feels like there is not enough time in each day (or month, or year) to do everything that I want to do.

These past two months took being busy to a whole new level. It took us a full 8 weeks to unpack and organize everything into our new house. Half of our rooms are still not decorated to the point that I would like them to be, so I will probably be waiting a while before I post pictures of our place. I was also consumed with my final clinical practicum class for grad school, which took up every moment of my free time between unpacking and entertaining Ryan. Whew!

Before the Andrew McMahon (Jack's Mannequin) concert.

We did manage to throw some fun into our lives during this crazy season. And, of course, I was sure to capture my favorite moments on camera. We were blessed to have tons of family and friends come to visit us over the past few weeks. Here is a collage of some of my recent Instagram photos:

If you are on Instagram, follow me @ Dana52084 
I recently changed my profile to private, but I will be sure to accept!   =)



My Best Friend's Bridal Shower and Wedding

You may remember that a while back (has it really been 2 years?) I wrote about being a bridesmaid in my best friend, K's wedding. Well, last month, our other best friend, J, got married too! I was so excited to be a bridesmaid (for probably the last time) and to help plan her tea-party themed bridal shower. I was responsible for making deviled eggs and also the decorations, including banners, place cards, and favors.


We also brought a variety of pictures to put together into a memory-filled scrapbook for J.


Here we are, my best girlfriends since high school: K, E (8 months pregnant!), J and me:


For the bridal shower favors, I chose three different types of tea leaves from Teavana and put them into little tea bags with colorful ribbons that corresponded with which type of tea was inside. I made tags with a stamp and wrote the amount of time and temperature to heat each tea on the back of each tag. The guests were also encouraged to take home a small tea cup, which J's sister found at various thrift shops. I think that the favors table turned out just how we envisioned it.


J and B's wedding was remarkably sophisticated and I loved how they added so many special personal touches and details. It was by far one of my favorite weddings that I have ever attended! We stayed the weekend at the inn where the wedding was held, so Ryan even got to participate in the festivities late into the night. I couldn't believe it when he asked me if he could "take a little rest on the couch" and then proceeded to fall asleep right there in the middle of the reception. What a good little boy we have!



Newborn Baby E

Our other best friend, E, recently gave birth to her first baby. After visiting and holding sweet little E, I now definitely have baby fever because she is just too adorable! Why do newborn babies always smell so good anyways? Ryan had such a fun time playing in E's huge basement that he didn't want to leave.



My 29th Birthday

Among all of the chaos of these past months, I decided that I wanted a low-key birthday celebration this year, which turned out to be perfect and relaxing! I walked around the harbor with my two favorite boys, and then we ate dinner at a delicious seafood restaurant on the water. After going through cancer and wondering if I would make it, birthdays have taken on a whole new meaning for me. I am so incredibly grateful for another year of my life. Rather than being embarrassed of my age or the inevitability of getting older, I am soooo thankful for each and every birthday. I hope to experience at least 50 more of them!


My Grad School Graduation Day


I began grad school in 2009, before Barry and I even got married. I took classes while working as a 2nd grade teacher, during my mom's cancer diagnosis, throughout my pregnancy, my diagnosis, (I did take a short break during chemo), my double mastectomy surgeries, raising a baby/toddler, my mom's passing away, moving to our house, and up through this past month. Words can not express how happy I am to finally be done and how proud I am of myself for sticking it out and staying focused on my classes despite the many obstacles. I am so grateful to have had Barry and Ryan by my side through everything. AND I am so pleased to graduate with straight A's! I just know that my mom is smiling down on me. I miss her so much and my heart aches daily, but I know that I am living the life that she would want me to live. I thank God for all of the strength and blessings that He has given to our family, and for all of the special people that He has put into my life.

All things work together for the good of those that love the Lord and are called according to his purpose.  ~Romans 8:28



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